BonitaTell the Truth but Tell it Slant: Grief and Loss as The Black Adopted Kid of White ParentsSomeone close to me is dying. They are racist. And, I love them.5 min read·May 4, 2021--2--2
BonitaHow Many Dead Black Bodies Does it Take to Make Anti-Racism Your New Year’s Resolution?I have never liked New Year’s Resolutions. Not surprisingly, this year has only increased that disdain. Not only because COVID has…·3 min read·Dec 29, 2020----
BonitaIn Black & White: 5 Tips For Interracial Couples Discussing RacismThis past June, my husband and I celebrated five years of marriage. You can probably guess that celebrating our five-year anniversary…·5 min read·Aug 4, 2020----
BonitaThe Canary Dies At the EndAt the turn of the twentieth century, coal miners would use canaries in order to detect carbon monoxide and other toxic gases to humans…·2 min read·Jul 27, 2020----
BonitaDear White (Racist) Christians: Stay Out of My DMsI am in a bad break-up with my DMs. Well actually, I am in a bad break-up with the white Christan racists in my DMs.·5 min read·Jul 22, 2020--10--10